Making others look good!!

 I am a person who is happy making others look good not just myself. I am never self centred. 😂

In my school and inter days, my father used to be very strict about my studies, so all my hobbies I used to pursue when he was not at home. I used to see my marwari friends in mehndi almost always. They used to put mehndi for all small and big occasions. And would flaunt their hands in class. Some would make it themselves and some would get it done by artists. 

I always had this desire of putting mehndi myself. During my engineering days, I used to apply mehndi not just to myself but almost half of my hostel mates. During 2nd yr somehow our seniors came to know that I did it. So, they called me to their hostel. Our ragging period was over and I was absent all through out that time.

It was Ganesh puja time. After applying mehndi to my classmates now it was turn of my seniors staying in our adjacent hostel. I went to their hostel. Applied to Didi's who wanted and talked to them. After returning to my hostel, some of my friends were angry on me. Why did you not say no to them? Very true.. why I didn't say no... Well if I can make it and they are happy then why I need to say no?? Anyways atleast I got to know few of them or else I would not have got that time to interact with them. 

And moreover god has given me such small hands. How much mehndi can I put to myself alone.😂 

2 years back I learnt to make a perfect bun for a dance program at my son's school. I did it for myself and for almost 8 others in that group. Lol the problem was one lady wanted everyone to avail a salon service for this hairstyle. And I ruined it. Everyone just came to me saying pls help me. And I did that without thinking about it. Later I realised why this lady might not have liked me for doing so. It was unintentional and for I didn't realise me helping someone can ruin someone else's desire to earn out of it. I felt sorry for her. 

Normally I spend very little in salon service. Because my skin doesn't even show slightest change for any such treatment on skin. To see a quick result on skin all I can do is go for bridal packages 🤣 and who wants that. I just believe if you are good at heart ❤️ your face will glow 🌟 like that.  And why obsess so much on looks. We should focus more on becoming a better version of ourselves. Age will anyway take away all this outer beauty that we have. Yes, that doesn't mean we should not take care of ourselves. But, obsession over it is long gone from my end. Infact I never tried many things that I wished to try atleast once. Now, I don't even feel like it.

So, when my friends say don't you desire to buy new clothes or get some salon or spa treatments. I just smile back without even answering anything. 😃