With death of Ratan tata, the same question arises multiple times in my mind. Why do we not do things when the person is alive? Many times our government wanted to give Ratan Tata a Bharat Ratna, but they did not..
What stopped us do this when he was alive? What benefit does it serve if you do this after the person is gone? News report says, Ratan Tata did not agree. Well a man who never chased appreciation or reward for his good works, will he come and say he wants it. But, does that stop us from recognising him.
Well it's past now. But, someone like him should receive it while alive. I don't think anyone would disagree to this.
Same goes to all our relationships with friends and people we know. We hesitate to share our feelings sometimes when they are around us and later we regret we could have done this or that. Why can't we do that immediately, whenever we felt like we should do it.
What stops us? Is it our ego, self respect or is it a fear of rejection? Life is too short. Who knows till when we can have them in our life. So, we should reach out to people more.
Just now saw a guru say that four things we should do in life
1- apologies when you know you made a mistake
2- appreciate others when they are their for you
3- share your feelings as early as can
4- seek help if you know you need it
It's easier said than done. My problem area is seeking help. 😂 Other 3 points is okay for me. Except this one. Lived so long without seeking help that I now feel awkward to even seek it. What do I do ?
I am imperfect and I need to learn too.
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