I came across an article today listing the nine life experiences that forge the mentally strong. As I read through the list, it felt less like a quiz and more like a summary of my own chapters.
Losing someone you loved deeply... Yes, I lost my father. I watched him in pain for a long time before he left us.
Facing the crushing weight of financial struggle... Yes, I did manage well so far but still this haunts.
Navigating the sting of rejection... Yeah, both personally and professionally.
Healing from a heartbreak ... Yes, I don't know if it reshaped me or not but that pain is an integral part of me now.
Overcoming the silent battle of mental health issues... Yes, I did and I am watchful of my behaviour after this.
Starting over in a new and unfamiliar place... Yes, I did it though this came easily for me. I did it for a new job offer.
Finding the courage to stand up for yourself... The situation forced me to defend myself and force others to accept their wrong behaviour towards me. I didn't like it nor would like that to ever happen again.
Surviving the humbling experience of failure... Yes, even though I choose it .. it still feels like failure
And watching a cherished dream slip through your fingers... Of course.many small dreams I gave up and don't really think about it now. Although I can fulfill I no longer feel like it.
The list was meant to be affirming, a testament to resilience. Yet, I'm left with a profound question: What is the purpose of this hard-earned strength?
With every trial, a piece of the hopeful, courageous person I once was seems to have been chipped away. The challenges haven't ended, and I find myself still walking a long, uncertain road with no destination in sight. I'm left to wonder, why does life demand we learn so much by taking so much away? If this is what it means to be strong, where does one find the strength to keep going?
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