Looking back, here's what I'd tell my younger self at 20:
* Never dim your light to illuminate someone else's path, not even for family.
* Your journey unfolds at its own pace. Don't rush it.
* Take chances. The outcome will be either a valuable experience or a lasting story.
* Be discerning with praise and criticism alike.
* People often hold you responsible for their unspoken desires. Be aware of this.
* Pay close attention to behavior, as words can be deceiving.
* When someone exits your life, they take a piece of you with them. Their vision for the future might not have included you, and that's a hard truth.
* While support may be scarce, judgment often isn't. Be prepared.
* Ensure your acts of kindness don't come at your own expense.
* The grace you extend might not always be reciprocated.
* When someone speaks rudely, it's often wise to create distance rather than trying to dissect their behavior. Protecting your peace is paramount.
* Truly understanding the complexities of human nature can be a significant challenge.
* You might encounter situations where others create difficulties and then hold you responsible for navigating them.
* The people who enter and leave our lives are often a matter of chance, a roll of the cosmic dice.
* Support can sometimes come from unexpected places, like friends, rather than family.
* There are times when inaction is more beneficial than excessive effort directed towards the wrong individuals. Hindsight often reveals the true nature of our interactions.
* Navigating difficult interpersonal situations can be messy and confusing. Your reactions, whether silence or anger, primarily impact you.
* Remember that actions taken cannot be reversed.
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