From the moment we're born, our lives are a journey of meeting people—our parents, siblings, and the friends we choose. I’ve always believed that every human relationship, at its core, is a form of friendship. These people love us, challenge us, and sometimes teach us hard lessons. And in their own unique way, each of them shapes who we become.
Some relationships are meant to be a chapter in our story, while others are a lifelong book. Looking back, many of us feel that the best chapters were written during our school and college days. Before the pressures of earning a living and facing "real life" challenges, life felt simpler. The good things seemed to come our way for free, which is why we often romanticize our youth as a time of pure joy.
But let's be honest, those years weren't perfect. We had days of uncertainty, frustration, and sadness. Yet, we pushed through because our hope was high. We were optimistic, even without knowing what the future held. As we age, life’s harsh realities can chip away at that optimism. Our options seem to narrow, and with that, our hope can fade.
This is where faith comes in for me. I believe the concept of God was created to keep that very hope alive. Unlike my two brothers, I find comfort in my faith. It helps me maintain patience and optimism on difficult days. It's also easier to hand over my anger, frustration, and sadness to a higher power rather than blaming the people in my life.
My blog has become a friend to me, a space where I can express my emotions without judgment. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to stumble upon this blog in another life—to read these words without knowing I wrote them. Would I laugh at my past self, or would I think, "Wow, this lady is crazy"?
This thought brings me back to friendship, and something my husband and I disagree on. He doesn't see all relationships as a form of friendship and doesn't seem to value friendship as much as I do. I'm not sure if this is a personal view or a general difference between men and women.
However, I believe how we think isn't determined by gender. Perhaps my husband simply hasn't experienced the value of friendship in the same way I have, especially since it's something that can't be measured in monetary terms. People who are focused on profit and loss may not see the importance of emotions and friendships, but for me, these connections are the most authentic and valuable parts of life. I will always choose them over any material possessions.
Happy friendship day dear blog!!
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