We often think of our abilities as fixed—like a muscle or a skill we’ve mastered. But psychology suggests our "inner world" is much more fragile than we admit. It is constantly being built, or broken, by the voices around us.
Imagine a basketball court. On one side, a professional player; on the other, a girl who has never held a ball.
When the girl tries to score, she misses. But then, she is blindfolded. Every time she throws, the crowd erupts in cheers, shouting that she hit the target perfectly. She hasn't—but she believes she has. When the blindfold is removed, she steps up and sinks the shot. The "fake" confidence became a real skill.
Then, the professional takes his turn. He is blindfolded, and even when his shots are perfect, the crowd groans in disappointment. They mock his "misses." When his blindfold is removed, the expert—the man who has done this a thousand times—misses the basket with his eyes wide open.
The takeaway is chilling: Constant discouragement can dismantle even the strongest talent. Our results are not just a product of our strength; they are a product of our environment.
This isn't just a theory; it is the ground reality for millions. Just recently, a heartbreaking video emerged from my home state that felt like a haunting scene pulled straight out of the movie "Homebound."
In the film, we see the crushing weight of systemic exclusion. In our reality, a young woman from a scheduled caste finally secured a government job as an assistant helper (Sahaika) in a primary school. For many, this is a dream realized—a stable step toward a better life. But the very next day, the "crowd" gathered. Not to cheer, but to tear her down.
Village members from the upper caste filed a formal complaint. Their grievance? They did not want their children eating mid-day meals prepared by her hands.
There is a bitter hypocrisy at play here. We often hear loud protests to abolish reservations once a family reaches a certain level of wealth or "standard." The argument is always about "merit"—that jobs should go to those who work hard.
Yet, here is a woman who did exactly that. She worked hard, reached the post, and was ready to serve her community. But suddenly, "merit" doesn't matter anymore. To these protesters, her hard work is invisible because of her birth.
Does caste change the nutrition of the food? Does it change the effort she put into getting the job? No. But prejudice acts as a permanent blindfold for society.
It is 2026. We are living in an era of rapid progress, yet we are still fighting battles over who can stir a pot of lentils in a village school.
We often say, "These things take time to change." But as we saw on the basketball court, words have an immediate, crushing effect on a person's spirit. While we wait for society to "slowly" change, how many more people are we intentionally causing to miss their target?
Change should not take this long. It shouldn't take us another generation to realize that a helping hand has no caste.
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